Take a deep breath, finding out you are pregnant when you weren’t expecting it can feel overwhelming. It’s okay to feel scared, anxious or unsure about what to do next and it is also true that the internet is full of information- some helpful, some misleading. So it’s important to have clear, factual and compassionate guidance. In this blog I’ll walk you through:
- Safe abortion methods that actually work
- Why “natural abortion” is risky and what you should avoid
- Legal abortion in India and your rights
- Medical vs surgical abortion - which is best for you
- Abortion side effects and what to expect
So let’s dive in.
Why is it for you?
If you’re considering an abortion, you might be wondering if this is the right choice. Many women face this situation and there is no right or wrong to this. Common reasons women usually seek an abortion include:
- Not being ready for a child
- Wanting to focus on their career or education
- Health or financial concerns
- Personal circumstances that make parenting difficult
Whatever your reason, this is your choice.
What to do if you need an abortion?
The safest and most effective abortion methods are medical abortion-pills and surgical abortion. Medical abortion works for pregnancies up to 9 weeks using doctor-prescribed pills and is 95-98% effective. Surgical abortion is a quick, safe procedure for pregnancies beyond 9 weeks, performed under medical supervision.
What are the best ways for abortion?
If you are considering how to abort naturally, please pause. It is important to understand that ‘natural’ methods are unsafe, here is what’s advisable:
- See a trusted doctor
- If eligible (as informed by the doctor), opt for medical abortion pills
- If you are beyond 9 weeks, you should consider a surgical abortion
- Avoid any DIY or herbal methods, they are unpredictable, dangerous and can lead to infections and complications.
Is it legal to get an abortion in India?
Yes, abortion is legal in India. Under the Medical Termination of Pregnancy (MTP) Act, you have the right to a safe abortion up to 24 weeks, depending on the circumstances. You do not need anyone’s permission (not your partner, family, or any other person’s) if you are an adult i.e. above 18 years of age.
Potential side effects
It’s normal to wonder what will happen to your body and if you’ll be okay. Here’s what to expect-
- Pills : cramping, heavy bleeding, nausea and fatigue for a few days (like an intense period).
- Surgical abortion : mild cramping, some spotting and a quick recovery.
If you follow medical guidance, your health and future fertility are not at risk.
Why natural abortion methods are risky
Natural abortion methods like herbal remedies, or extreme physical activity are unreliable and dangerous. They can cause excessive bleeding, infection or incomplete abortion- leading to severe health risks. Without medical supervision, they put your safety at risk, always choose medically approved options.
Social stigma around abortions
Abortion carries a lot of stigma and unfortunately, society often makes women feel guilty. But here’s the truth:
- You are not alone, many women will have an abortion in their lifetime.
- Abortion is healthcare, it is a medical decision and not a moral debate.
- You do not owe anyone an explanation (of course your doctor needs to know the important details). Your body, your choice, period.
No one else knows your circumstances better than you, people will have opinions and it is okay to prioritize your well-being.
Final Thoughts
You may be feeling scared, uncertain or even overwhelmed and that’s okay! Abortion is a big decision, but it is yours to make with clarity and confidence. Keep in mind that whatever you choose- you are not alone and you have safe options. If you think abortion works best, the key is to choose the right medical guidance and support. Take your time, seek advice from our gynaecologists and trust yourself and the process- you are strong, capable and in charge of your health.
How can Proactive for Her help
We believe that every woman deserves safe, stigma-free, compassionate healthcare. If you are considering an abortion or need someone to talk to, we are here to support you without judgement and pressure. Our expert OB-GYNs provide safe and legal medical or surgical abortion options, guiding you through every step with care and clarity. We offer confidential consultations so you feel free and comfortable to ask questions and make informed decisions in a space that prioritizes you.
From understanding your health and what works best for you, we ensure that you feel supported, empowered and in charge of your health.